How Losing My Babies Taught Me Life's Most Valuable Lessons

July 14, 2024•1 min read

This morning I asked my soul what it wanted to share with the world and how I could help someone that needs it today.

I flipped my book open to the chapter on losing our babies. I read the wisdom. I cried.

I didn't know that I missed them so much today. They shared their wisdom so I could live on.

They live on through this book. If you have lost a baby or suffered a miscarriage, or know someone that has...maybe this will help. <3

This is what they had to say....

"There is a divine timing to everything. We knew it wasn't the right time to come. Every time. It wasn't your fault. It wasn't because of your health, weight, or body. It was because it was not the right time for all involved. It's ok. It's really okay. We will see each other again, that is for sure. We will all be together again. Promise."

When I sat down to write this book, I had no idea what would come out. I just knew it was a story that had to be told. This book was born in 13 days..13 very intense days.

This book changed everything for me. There was a peace that literally washed over me as I was writing. A peace with losing every family member in a short amount of time. A peace with losing 5 babies. A peace with being bullied...FOREVER. A peace with the feeling of being alone on this planet.

What I know for sure...

We Rise from all of our circumstances. We Love ourselves and each other through it. We Shine brighter than we ever!

I am with you..loving you...rooting for you.

<3 Heather

Heather Criswell

I am the author of two books, How to Raise a Happy Child (and be happy too) and Wise Talk from the Other Side. At 21, I founded a unique school where children were celebrated for their gifts, which led to a career where I've worked with over 30,000 kids in 25 years. Later, I launched a holistic wellness center and WiseInside, offering tools to connect with inner wisdom and love. This next chapter I’m launching The Conversation Academy where we help you navigate the most challenging conversations , personally and professionally, by providing tools, scripts and practice so that you can get what you want in any conversation. As a communication coach, speaker, and trainer, I help individuals and leaders navigate tough conversations with ease and grace, dissolving conflict and enhancing clarity. My mission is to help you master your words and energy to achieve your desires in any conversation. Every. Single. Time. One conversation can change your life.

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